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BUT WHO AM I?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BUT WHO
AM I?

 

 

MY STORY

MY PATH TO BECOMING A MEN'S COACH

AN UNALIGNED PATH

For years, I built a career in content and social media marketing. I found success, but something felt off. I was just coasting through life, physically and emotionally getting slower, fatter, grumpier and less of a lover.

 

MY OWN AWAKENING

Then came the breaking point. I was overweight, money was drying up and my marriage was on the line. My wife looked me in the eyes and said, "I need you to be more of a man, or I’m leaving." Something had to change.

 

EXPLORATION & EDUCATION

I went all in, not just on my body, but on understanding what it actually meant to be a man. From my research I realised I was displaying every single one of the main "boy behaviours". So I studied more books and courses for months. But knowledge wasn’t enough. I had to live it. I rebuilt my life, transformed my body, my mindset, and my relationship from the ground up.

LAUNCHING MY PRACTICE

With a burning desire to help other men the way I had helped myself, I founded the Mallorca Men's Club and my coaching practice. It has became a space for men to challenge themselves, break free from boy-like patterns, and build real community. Every man who steps up fuels my passion and proves why this work matters.

MY STORY

MY PATH TO BECOMING A MEN'S COACH

AN UNALIGNED PATH

For years, I built a career in content and social media marketing. I found success, but something felt off. I was just coasting through life, physically and emotionally getting slower, fatter, grumpier and less of a lover.

 

MY OWN AWAKENING

Then came the breaking point. I was overweight, money was drying up and my marriage was on the line. My wife looked me in the eyes and said, "I need you to be more of a man, or I’m leaving." Something had to change.

 

EXPLORATION & EDUCATION

I went all in, not just on my body, but on understanding what it actually meant to be a man. From my research I realised I was displaying every single one of the main "boy behaviours". So I studied more books and courses for months. But knowledge wasn’t enough. I had to live it. I rebuilt my life, transformed my body, my mindset, and my relationship from the ground up.

LAUNCHING MY PRACTICE

With a burning desire to help other men the way I had helped myself, I founded the Mallorca Men's Club and my coaching practice. It has became a space for men to challenge themselves, break free from boy-like patterns, and build real community. Every man who steps up fuels my passion and proves why this work matters.

Real husbands who chose to change first… and what happened next

These aren’t perfect men. They’re men who were where you are now and decided to do the work.

James, 38

Married 6 years, 5 year old son

My wife had no respect for me and we had had talked about divorce but decided we were basically staying together for our kid.

Then I started working with Alessandro. A few weeks later everything changed. My confidence returned. The scary part was seeing my son talk to his mum differently. He was copying me before and now respected his mother again because I did.

6 months on we have decided that we’re staying together because we actually want to.

Michael, 45

From the brink of divorce

I always thought coaching was bullshit and basically a scam. I only worked with Alessandro because my wife gave me an ultimatum. It kills me to admit she was right.

What surprised me was that Alessandro actually cares. He didn’t talk down to me. He just showed me my behaviour in a way that finally made sense. I started feeling more confident, and I could actually see the blind spots I kept denying.

I’d be lying if I said anything else: Alessandro changed my life for the better

Adam, 39

Married 11 years, 2 kids

Before this work we’d argue almost every night. I felt attacked, she felt ignored. I was either defending myself or shutting down.

Within a few weeks of actually doing what Alessandro teaches, everything in our house changed. I learned how to stop being defensive and she stopped coming speaking to me like she didn't respect me anymore.

The biggest win? Intimacy came back in our marriage after nothing for more than 

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