The Better Husband Academy

Become a better husband in 70 days without spending years in therapy

January 3rd Doors Close

There comes a time in every marriage, where the fights get worse and divorce starts getting mentioned...

You know that each time it’s said, your marriage gets worse.

Your wife is saying things like “I need you to listen,” “I have so much mental load,” “you are useless,” “I don’t feel safe,” “I need you to step up.”

All of these are signs that there's a wall between the two of you that is growing.

There is a huge danger here. The higher this wall grows, the more chance your wife will look at it and just say… “Nope, I’m done.”

I have seen it so many times. The moment that wall is too high, she stops nagging, stops caring, and moves on emotionally.

DON’T COME TO ME THEN.

It’s almost impossible for me to do anything about it.

But if she is STILL pushing and complaining, this is your time to change.

This is the moment.

This Academy is the work.

I WANT TO DO THE WORK

🚫 What most men get wrong about fixing their marriage

If you are like most of the men I coach, you think things will fix themselves when the stress calms down, when work gets easier, when the house is less chaotic, or when your wife stops complaining.

I’m really sorry brother… these things never get easier. We have to learn how to step up, otherwise we lose it all and end up divorced, lonely, and wondering what the point of any of this was.

But now that the bad news is out of the way… I have some good news.

Your wife isn’t looking for a perfect man.

She wants a present one.
She wants to feel safe with you again.
She wants to stop carrying everything.
She wants to trust how you respond when things get hard.

Okay… how is this good news, Alessandro?

Well, I’m glad you asked. These are learnable skills and they are what I teach men every single day.

• How to listen in a way that calms her
• How to take responsibility without feeling weak
• How to talk so she actually feels understood
• How to stay grounded when she is emotional
• How to rebuild respect
• How to rebuild trust
• How to lead the change even if she is frustrated with you right now

You will learn what no one ever showed you but should have.

And that is exactly what the Better Husband Academy gives you.

GET ME IN NOW!!

Here’s exactly what you get inside the Academy, so you know this isn’t like all the other coaching crap out there.

The 40 Video Core Program

Short, direct lessons that are so simple you can watch on the toilet (not recommended but you get the point).

Each one shows you exactly how to handle the situations that blow up your marriage.

The Self-Led 70 Day Structure

You get a clear pathway to follow in the right order.
What to watch first. What to practice. What to focus on.
You can take the full 70 days or move at your own pace.
You will always know exactly what to do next.

Real Skills and Daily Rituals You Can Use Immediately

You learn how to stay calm when she’s emotional, how to talk so she feels understood, and how to stop shutting down or getting angry.
All of this is supported with simple 5 minute daily rituals that help the change stick and rebuild respect and trust fast.

Lifetime Access and Support

You can revisit any lesson whenever you need it, especially during tough moments at home.
You also get support inside the private WhatsApp group, along with a live opening call to set you up and a closing call to make sure the work sticks.

Take me to the Academy

But WHAT exactly am I learning? What are the modules? What happens first, second, third?

Module 1: The One Where You Finally Understand Why Everything Feels So Hard

This is where you learn what the real problem is. The brick wall, the resentment, the missed needs, the patterns you both fell into. You walk away saying: "Oh… that is what has been happening between us."

Module 2: The One Where You Remember Who You Are

Here you stop living like a watered down version of yourself. You reconnect to direction, identity, self respect and the man you are becoming. This is the end of passivity.

Module 3: The One Where You Finally Take Pressure Off Her

You learn mental load, invisible responsibilities and how to take ownership in a way that makes her soften. This is where she stops feeling alone and starts feeling supported again.

Module 4: The One Where Fights Stop Escalating

This is your defensiveness and emotional control module. You learn how to stay calm, stop shutting down, stop snapping and stop reacting in ways that make things worse. This is where the tone in the house starts to change.

Module 5: The One Where You Get Real About Whether You Are Staying

The commitment module. No more half in, half out energy. You get clarity. Are you here to grow this marriage or have you been avoiding the truth. This module changes your posture as a man.

Module 6: The One Where You Become The Man She Can Rely On

You learn the Priority Wheel. You fix the chaos. You shift your behaviour so she finally feels like the relationship is a team again and not her dragging everything behind her.

Module 7: The One Where You Stop Fixing Her and Start Leading Yourself

The Two Pedals module. You discover the simplest relationship rule on earth. This changes how every argument goes.

Module 8: The One Where You Step Into The Next Chapter Of Your Life

The identity module. You claim who you are now, who you are becoming and how you will lead your relationship from here. This is where the shift sticks.

But why should a husband change first...

Real husbands who chose to change first… and what happened next

These aren’t perfect men. They’re men who were where you are now and decided to do the work.

Adam, 39

Married 11 years, 2 kids

Before this work we’d argue almost every night. I felt attacked, she felt ignored. I was either defending myself or shutting down.

Within a few weeks of actually doing what Alessandro teaches, everything in our house changed. I learned how to stop being defensive and she stopped coming speaking to me like she didn't respect me anymore.

The biggest win? Intimacy came back in our marriage after nothing for more than

Michael, 45

From the brink of divorce

I always thought coaching was bullshit and basically a scam. I only worked with Alessandro because my wife gave me an ultimatum. It kills me to admit she was right.

What surprised me was that Alessandro actually cares. He didn’t talk down to me. He just showed me my behaviour in a way that finally made sense. I started feeling more confident, and I could actually see the blind spots I kept denying.

I’d be lying if I said anything else: Alessandro changed my life for the better

James, 38

Married 6 years, 5 year old son

My wife had no respect for me and we had had talked about divorce but decided we were basically staying together for our kid.

Then I started working with Alessandro. A few weeks later everything changed. My confidence returned. The scary part was seeing my son talk to his mum differently. He was copying me before and now respected his mother again because I did.

6 months on we have decided that we’re staying together because we actually want to.

WHO IS THIS FOR? ✅

✔ Men who keep getting defensive even when they don’t want to
✔ Men who shut down in fights or avoid hard conversations
✔ Men who feel like their wife leads everything at home
✔ Men who are tired of walking on eggshells
✔ Men who know their reactions make things worse
✔ Men who want their respect back, from their wife and from themselves
✔ Men who want real tools, not years of therapy

WHO IS THIS NOT FOR? 🚫

✖ Men who blame their wife for everything
✖ Men who want a magic fix without doing the work
✖ Men who refuse to look at their own part
✖ Men who want to stay the same but hope she just stops complaining
✖ Men who think “this is just how I am”
✖ Men who won’t take responsibility for their anger, silence, or shutdown

ALRIGHT I'm in, Alessandro.

Alright… let’s talk about the elephant in the room. Money. 💵

Look, I get it.

The moment you see a price, your brain goes straight to:

“What if this doesn’t work?”
“What if I waste more money on coaching?”
“What if she still leaves me after I try this?”

That’s normal.

Every man who joins the Academy has this same moment where he has to choose between staying stuck…
or actually backing himself for once.

But here’s something you already know:

The real cost isn’t the money.
It’s what staying the same is doing to your marriage.

How many more fights can you have?
How much more resentment can you pile up?
How many more times can she say, “I can’t do this anymore,” before she means it?

You’re not paying for “videos.”
You’re paying to stop the thing that’s breaking your marriage piece by piece.

And because I know men have been burned by bullshit coaches before…
let’s make this simple....

🎖️THE BETTER HUSBAND MONEY BACK GUARANTEE 🎖️

If you go through the Academy the way it’s designed…
and after 70 days you don’t feel more calm, more respect, and more connection at home…

I’ll give you your money back.

I’ll take that risk on my side.

But there’s one condition:

You must actually do the work.

That means:

You watched the lessons
You used the daily rituals
You applied the tools at home
You checked in inside the WhatsApp group
You showed up even when it was hard

If you do that and nothing improves?

I don’t want your money.

That means I failed to deliver....

But I got to tell you from one man to another...
Men who show up always improve, sometimes in ways that shock them.

This guarantee is simple:

You do your part. I back it with mine.

Alright I am in! Take me to the Academy

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